those who dropped...
by: Isuboo
Comment#2 by: standards
A few days before initiation we had our 'pep talks' with our bigs. Mine stated she believed I was not prepared to become a member of their group. Having given unselfishly of my time and talents during pledging, I told her I disagreed. She made it clear she would tell the other initiated members I was not ready for initiation. After that, I went to the standards board and asked how I could become a member if my big said NO. They told me I would not be initiated until next semester. Feeling really sad about it, I went home for break and decided my heartaches would only increase if I had to wait another few months to be initiated. So I dropped. Of course all that time and money spent were gone, but I guess if they did not think I belonged I couldn't force the issue.
#3 by: thxbutnothx
I did informal too...settled for a house I didn't love cause it was one of the only ones recruiting and realized it wasn't gonna work out because the girls were just a little too weird for my liking. I have no regrets though...saved up the cash I was gonna use for dues and booked a summer trip to Italy instead!
by: HahaJul 17, 2017 4:20:29 PM
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by: xoxoJul 10, 2017 2:25:12 AM
you sound very kind and good hearted, keep your head up - those girls probably didn't deserve to have a friend like you!!!
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