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University:  University of Michigan Flint - UMF

Greek Organization:  Theta Phi Alpha

Author:  idk

Comment:  they pretty much hang out with kappa sigma 24/7 who are known to have past SA allegations yet they bury this information and will not tell any of their new members but will invite them to party & get drunk with them; despite some of the older members feeling uncomfortable and wishing they would stop associating with Kappa Sig, they will still actively invite other (new) members around them. They keep it hush-hush and downplay the past SA accusations despite kappa literally being banned from campus at one point due to the allegations. obviously something must've been true because it's not like anyone gets banned from campus for no reason. they actively try to keep everyone else in the dark about it. that's what rubs me the wrong way. they are also not very "sisterly". i spent barely a month in this sorority and i can count on a single hand how many times anyone actually tried to include me (or other new members) in anything. Say hi to them in public and they will literally make eye contact with you & blatantly ignore you. Try to make conversation with them and they will either pretend like they didn't hear you, or they will start talking but veer off into a different conversation with someone else & turn their back to you. It literally reminds me of high school. There is only one, maybe two members who made an actual effort with me. When i brought this issue up to an older member to try to resolve this, I was basically told it was my fault and/or that I was being overdramatic. I was told "conversations work both ways" (( even after I told them that even when i initiate conversation, i am still blatantly ignored.)) Don't get me wrong, the older members are very kind and polite upfront, but generally speaking everybody lacks consideration and care. It does not feel like a welcoming environment. It constantly feels like you're third wheeling and like everything they say is an inside joke & you're in the dark. When you call attention to any of this, they make it seem like you're the one being dramatic and that nothing is wrong with them whatsoever. I've decided to drop before initiation because I'd rather not spend $300/semester around people who barely give me the time of day let alone make me feel, at the very least, welcomed in an environment i'm literally paying to be in. Yet this is supposed to be a "sisterhood". Yeah, okay. What a disappointment. & it's the fact that i'm not even the only one who feels this way. i've spoken to three other members who have voiced these same exact thoughts. To my knowledge, i'm the only one deciding to leave. i joined this sorority expecting friendship but received nothing except constant disappointment & stress.