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University:  University of Alabama Birmingham - UAB

Greek Organization:  Kappa Delta

Author:  wooly mammoth

Comment:  DISCLAIMER: being brutally honest, go with what your heart tells you to do, really and truly consider what you are about to put yourself through. Consider the fact that recruitment is all about surface level looks. KD here is different from KD elsewhere, i promise. I know someone who suffered in this environment so badly that she no longer goes to UAB. I only know a handful of KDs who are actually nice, genuine people. The other 98% of this sorority are very stuck minded, stuck in high school (really really big emphasis on this), drama filled people. People talk yes, but these girls TALK, even about their bestest friends. Its awful and I only hear problematic things going on between friend groups and in friend groups (with a neutral opinion). Another one of my friends rushed KD and after she got in, she was completely and utterly changed. She does not act like herself anymore. She is not one to instigate in drama or be surface level/fake to people like me, who she was once close with. Now she is one of the most two sided people I know. I can’t explain the personality change exactly but i am sure other people have the same experience w their friends going KD. All of them are so two faced except a few, which I could count on one hand. I am not in anyway trying to hate on this chapter as a whole and not insinuating that this won’t ever change, but this is what I have seen from so many people. Please. Make the a good choice for yourself and for your own well being.