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University:  University of South Carolina, Upstate - USCU

Greek Organization:  Delta Zeta

Author:  Former DZ

Comment:  I originally loved this chapter when I joined. when I got initiated though my big had to explain to me how she "wasn't a bully" after being the reason multiple people left the sorority. I then got a high ranking position in the sorority and was extremely happy to do it. However the seniors then told me to give up certain things that I should have had in my position to another person by cornering me after chapter. after the seniors left that same person often gave me attitude through out the semester for doing things that I was supposed to do. I thought it was just her though. At this point I started to feel really lonely because a click started to form. Even though I had this high ranking position and you would expect people to talk to me and come to me about things, no one ever did. I often felt excluded and lonely at events. I then started to have to work a lot due to financial reasons and was not in a good mental state because of it. Not one sister asked about me. they then got angry at me after I missed one event and was going to be late to another (I had told the person in advance and they okayed it. When I got the event that I was late to they kept me locked outside of the room. they then yelled at me via text for deciding to not come to chapter that night after I told them I wouldn't be coming because I was upset and that it wasn't their fault (I told them I was overthinking things). by the next morning they had removed my position and decided that because I can't tell them how I was feeling (mentally) and that I didn't tell them about my financial problems, that I not only don't deserve my position but it makes them feel bad and look bad to the new members. I left the chapter after that. Everyone that is currently in the chapter (excluding the newest members) are some of the most uncaring and two faced people I know. If you want to join Delta Zeta at USC Upstate, then don't have financial issues, don't feel bad mentally, don't feel lonely, and make sure to come to everything even when you can't. I wish all future sisters good luck and good experience because I surely didn't.