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University:  University of Alabama Tuscaloosa - UA

Greek Organization:  Delta Delta Delta

Author:  Wkywtd

Comment:  As an active, I want to give my genuine perspective. I came into rush feeling so loved by tri delt. They dirty rushed me so hard to make me feel wanted. Throughout rush, I felt like a celebrity in their house. So as a young 18 year old in a miserable rush week, of course I chose tri delt. You cannot put your finger on us. We have the antisocial girls, the party animals, the go-getters. A lot of people in house see this and claim it to be our biggest strength. Though, I have struggled, and so many girls around me in my house struggle. There’s no strong involvement, which I liked because I knew I wouldn’t feel pressure. But instead, there’s just no support or connections. Whereas, my friends in other houses have so much support and connections when it comes to academics, jobs, involvement, etc. I love this house and I love the girls in my house, but I can’t help but think daily that who I am as a person belongs somewhere else. Girls who rush in 2024, please think past the dirty rushing and try to find where you belong based on who YOU are. It’s not about how wanted you feel, it’s about where you’ll fit in most. Truly, it’s not 3x better with just one letter if you don’t belong here. I see other sororities being friends and hanging out with other houses, but in this house, it’s just us. And it stays that way. And it’s lonely. Please think about this when you rush. Our alum picks our lists at the end of the day, so you can’t even count on your best friends being in house with you if you’re on the other side of rush. There’s just some hard truths that aren’t always clear. The only perks I’ve found besides finding some friendships is feeling like a celeb at phi delt and our meals lol. We aren’t known to be the classiest, or most involved, or “top of the top”. Think past the dirty rushing, please. We do it on purpose so you don’t think about these things. We got a fabulous PC this year, so I hope and pray that it gets better and that less girls feel the way I do. But truly it’s just not always how it seems. That goes for every house. Go somewhere that you’d be proud to say you’re apart of, somewhere that you know the reputation will still be strong in 10 years. Not fresh off the COB list (couple years ago not currently) because of the issues listed above