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University:  Valdosta State University - VSU

Greek Organization:  Alpha Delta Pi

Author:  Not daddy’s money:)

Comment:  I was and adpi for 2 years and genuinely tried to convince myself that this was a sisterhood when i knew it wasn’t unless you were a part of certain cliques in the sorority. I preffed phi mu and wanted to be in phi mu so bad bc they seemed like they had their faith in god as a priority more than any sorority and that’s what i wanted so bad. Adpi was my second choice and they acted like they also had faith as a priority in the sorority when i talked to them about it during recruitment and it was lowkey a lie but they wanted to bring girls in so bad they’d lie to these pnms when they asked a question about their values. In my two years of being pretty incolved in Greek get down, the exec board, and numerous adpi activities I’d volunteer to help with, i only had 2 people that ever really tried to talk to me or hang out with me. I actually went to high school with another adpi and she was literally one of the cliquey, bully, mean girls and that’s really what a lot of adpi is made up of. If you were not the cliquey mean girl or peaked in high school with daddy’s money then you were kind of an outcast in adpi and i know a few still in there now that feel like that and i feel bad for them and it’s sad. It’s sad that on bid day you have the best day ever with these girls you’ve been talking to all week, thinking they’re gonna be your best friends and the values you want in a sisterhood during recruitment are talked about and honestly majority of it is fake.After bid day you’ll go through the buddy system and meet new girls, and in my situation these girls literally never talked to me after the system, other than my big that i met through it. Recruiting girls is so fake, I know because i had to be on the sister side of recruitment for one year and i basically had to put a pretty face on and say amazing things about adpi when majority of what i said to these girls were not true, i realized before this recent recruitment i was a victim to that and i didn’t even realize it until years later that these girls were literally lying about how amazing their sisterhood was to make them look good. Also speaking of looking good, the same exact girls are posted every few pictures on the Instagram. I sent in so many pictures that i thought were good enough for the Instagram and it’s disgusting how they want a look for the sorority so bad they will only put certain types of girls on the Instagram to attract certain types of girls to the sorority. You can literally see what I’m talking about when u look on @adpivsu Instagram. It’s sad when i did put in a lot into the sorority and didn’t get out what i thought I’d get. Everyone in adpi says you will get what you put in in adpi and i did that but still it was so cliquey to me and many other girls were a part of a clique that it felt like high school. I did meet some sweet girls and had great times at socials but it was just sad to see that around 60/70 ish girls were cliquey and acted like they were better than me when they saw me. Like literally at my job I’d see girls and they’d act like they didn’t know me, that makes me sick to my stomach that more girls will feel like this. I had more people engage with me and i try to hang out in other sororities. I just feel bad for any girl that will go through what i went through after this recruitment. I’m sure it’s a sisterhood to the girls a part of the cliques in adpi but there should never be cliques to begin with in a sorority. I pray things change in adpi.