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University:  University of Michigan Ann Arbor - UM

Greek Organization:  Alpha Phi

Author:  pnm

Comment:  As a PNM I got invited back to aphi up until round 3. All of my friends were excited for me, I didn’t think much about it because I had other houses I liked more. The girls I talked to were superficial and not genuine. Not that they were outwardly mean, they just didn’t seem nice and excited to have all of the PNMs there like every single other house I went to. I was supposed to be joining a sisterhood and it looked like these girls just cared about what my peers and i looked like and who we knew, this one girl asking a lot of questions about my connections w certain people/groups on campus. I personally did not want to join and don’t know why they’re popular, it does not feel like a close knit community at all. But that may just be my personal opinion. Needless to say, I dropped them. I’ll never know if the feeling was mutual because I got 2/2 of the houses I prefed back. But my advice as a PNM is to follow your gut and not the hype, as in this case i didn’t get it