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University:  Oklahoma State University - OSU

Greek Organization:  Sigma Phi Lambda

Author:  C.J.

Comment:  My experience was awful. By the time I was initiated, I had only met my Big at reveal and one other time when we hung out. She didn't purchase any gifts (which we receive after initiation) and I got them from my replacement Big who wasn't even there (very sloppy Big/Little relationships)! By the time I was a member and had two Littles of my own (whom I loved at first and I'm close to one of them now because she apologized for what happened), things went downhill. My "sisters in Christ" began judge me based on mistakes I had made. The worst part was that after something awful happened to me, they said that it was partially my fault and some of them had the audacity to say I was lying about it and that I had made it up to get attention (NOT HOW CHRISTIANS SHOULD BEHAVE!!!). Once this confrontation happened that was the final straw and I dropped. And these events I began affectionately called my roommate (who also dropped Phi Lamb) "my little" on social media, we had members contact us and tell us that it was wrong for us to do that and it was hurting people's feelings...this isn't high school if they have an issue approach me, but I'm no longer in your sorority either ignore me or unfriend me. It's been two years since then and it still hurts and makes me bitter toward the woman in that organization. If you want to be part of a sisterhood, SKIP PHI LAMB and join a PANHELLENIC sorority!!!