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University:  University of California, Santa Cruz - UCSC

Greek Organization:  Kappa Alpha Theta

Author:  Lets Get Real

Comment:  Okay, all these negative posts are making me want to say something. I’m not in this org but am friends with a large amount and have gone to sooo many events for them. Yes people may seem clique-y but you are going to get that in every single group you find. In a group of 100+ people you’re not gonna be BFFs with every single person (I’m not in my own). The girls I have met/interacted with have always been nice and amazing to me, even if they don’t really know me they try to and continue conversation with me to make me feel welcome at events. You’re gonna get low participation for the first couple of years for an organization because they are still getting over the rep of being a new org. I see them at so many different Greek events all over campus (probably more than others including my own). The girls who do participate try their damn hardest. I’m sorry that you feel bullied, as someone who has feel extremely excluded from things I can understand your feelings, but I suggest either considering dropping since you don’t feel comfortable in the org anymore (that’s not to be rude) or just distancing yourself from the people that make you feel excluded. There’s 100+ girls in the org, you are bound to find other friends and make the most of your situation. All this crap talking is just going to cause more unnecessary drama and bad atmosphere, be an adult and deal with the problem not through an anonymous screen 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️