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University:  Stephen F. Austin State University - SFASU

Greek Organization:  Delta Zeta

Author:  Old DZ at SFA

Comment:  As a former DZ i can honestly say it was one of the worst experiences i've encountered. I went through bullying all through high school, and i was so excited to be in a sorority where i would have a chance to get friends. However, people started hating me for no reasons. I would apologize all the time and try to make friends and hang out, but everyone always ignored me. When i got my little i thought things were looking up but then she dropped so i was alone again. I honestly just never could have imagined it being that bad, EXEC shunned everyone who wasnt their friend, and if you didnt belong to a clique, then you didn't belong at all. I had preffed DZ and Tri Delt and I willing chose DZ because of how they all made me feel during rush. However, none of those feelings are real, as soon as they get their numbers they just disregard anyone who they don't think really should've got in. Some people were really good to me, but others made me feel sick to my stomach everytime i knew i had to come to a Monday meeting or ill be fined. One of my only friends in DZ got a anonymous message saying she was dead to DZ and that she never belonged anyways right after she dropped. They had no idea how much stuff she was going through at the time and it really pushed her over the edge, i felt so bad for her. We couldn't do anything about it because no one knew who sent it, however she never got an apology from anyone. I had to hold her for days while she cried because she gave so much to people who made her feel so bad about herself. I'm sure DZ had redeeming qualities and the amount of fundraising they do is nice, but its not worth the 250 a month bill. God forbid you get on bad standing and youre Forbid to do ANYTHING besides one social (if they have a social) and possibly a formal. Having to sit on an opposite side of the room and not say a word but still pay the monthly fees. It's garbage and they are the only sorority i know that goes to such lengths for bad standing. Basically there are better sororities, but if you think DZ is THE ONE FOR YOU, then go for it. Some people really like, i pray none of the new members go through what i went through.