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Poster Name:
bruh
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The thing is there is a middle. ADPi did a great job of making girls feel included but it was to the point where most PNM's wanted ADPi and ADPi hardly dropped anyone. If they had slowly dropped girls that didn't align that would be different because that's how the process works. AXO dropped girls without saying a word within the first weeks because we all know they did a look based recruitment. GPHI wasn't as intense but in the end same thing you know it was mainly look based on how much they would comment on the girls who they wanted and ignored everyone else which was just wrong. ADPi just strung over 100 girls along knowing they only are giving 40 bids and none of us knew that... we all felt like we had a chance. To put it into perspective my group of girls were 12 of us rushing ADPi, 10 of us went to pref, only one got in. Most of them didn't get bids because they put their all into APDi thinking they were special. Each recruitment round ADPi should have started dropping girls so by the time it reached Pref there wasn't so many, not hating at all ADPi is great IM SURE they made us feel great and I loved it and they didn't make us feel excluded but you can't say there's no winning when there is winning. I feel like every sororities had flaws during this process, some worse than others (cough cough AXO) and since Spring might also be virtual we can take this to see who is taking this kind of criticism as helpful instead of an attack to hopefully have a better proces