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Just because you are a legacy, it does not guarantee you a bid. Houses may give you a free pass and invite you back. Not sure if you got one. But in all reality it's all about making a connection with the girls. It's a mutual process. You can't expect to fit into a sorority that a family member was once a part of, which may have been years ago, at the same school or another. I for one disagree with the whole legacy status just because I would want the girls to look at me as an individual and what I have to offer instead of what my siblings, mom, or other family members did. Let's be honest, if you didn't get a bid it wasn't meant to be, because they did bid quite a few legacies. Hope you found your happy place. OU has many wonderful Sororities and a great Greek Life.