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Clarification

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The posts left by a ZTA yesterday mention a couple of times about the girls telling you they want you then being cut. I just wanted to clarify some of this confusion because it is an issue every year: girls go crying to Panhellenic or their new house with horror stories of a group that said they wanted them and then they were cut. These girls are left feeling blind sided and with a horrible image of the sorority in question. HOWEVER, 9 times out of 10, the PNM just thinks that is what the girl was telling her. PNM's equate a member telling her "I'm so glad you are here today," or "I hope you like it here" to mean "You will be here on bid day," or "We love you being here." Members get into tough spots with girls they know probably wont be back. You have to make these girls feel welcomed just like the ones you know you want badly. No one is going to be unwelcoming or rude to a PNM. So the PNM takes the niceness as a guarantee, then ends up being released.