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@Bond of sisterhood - Thank you for your kind comments! Like someone said below houses will find a rec for a girl they really like. It happens rarely in my house, probably 3 girls that I know of. Normally our advisor will say we can't keep her she doesn't have a rec and if we like her enough everyone shouts in protest. So then the alums contact everyone we could possibly know from her hometown to find someone to recommend her, even finding someone who knows her that knows an alum then having that alum write the rec. So it doesn't happen too terribly much, but it can happen. If a chapter needs the numbers and like a girl they'll do it which is what happened with your daughter. I understand her being reluctant to take a snap bid to somewhere she doesn't see herself. I really hope she reconsiders though because it's a great opportunity to make that chapter into something amazing, not to mention there is a whole new group of girls that just pledged there that she didn't meet during rush. There is always spring rush, but normally only 2, maybe 3 houses spring rush, and with those getting such large classes this fall they may not be able to. Either way, I hope it woks out and she is happy.