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really?

Poster Message:
OK. You know what? There are lots of ways to make friends in college and sorority life is just one of them. I wouldn't give the houses who do informal the satisfaction of playing their game. It's inherently secretive and totally unfair. It also is probably discriminatory since I don't know even one woman of color who joined a house through information rush or COBing. If I'm wrong about this, let me know. But the reality is that the deck is stacked against you unless you know someone in a house and the houses who do informal LOVE to mess with people and make them feel less than worthy because that's how so many of them felt during rush in August. If you can't go through formal rush I wouldn't bother. Just find a different way to make lasting friends. Because I wouldn't want to join a house that takes pride in being unfair, discriminatory and not playing by the rules. It's time for Panhel to step up and take the mystery out of informal rush. And it's time for the OP to not waste even one more second being "emotionally drained" over something as f'ed up as informal rush. There's a reason the best houses don't want to be a part of it.