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Poster Name:
Nope

Poster Message:
There is someone on this site who keeps carping about "maximizing your options." while what she is saying is generally true, she is performing a huge disservice to the handful of women who ranked all of the houses they went to on pref day and still wind up without a bid. It happens. Let's not pretend it doesn't. There are NO guarantees. Unless you know what goes on behind closed doors as bid lists are being prepared you can't possibly guarantee that everyone who lists all of their choices gets a bid. A late rec. An alum who knows the family. An active who finally speaks up, in private, to the recruitment chair. Any and all of these things can happen. So let's not mislead anyone. I hope everything works out for the best, but I don't want people to think it can't happen.