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Poster Name:
GoGreek

Poster Message:
I'm sorry you got cut by your top choice today but you still have an awesome house left! Honestly, even if some houses have a reputation for being a certain way, not even half of the 300+ girls in the chapter fit that stereotype, whether it's for partying or being awkward or being Stepford wife material. With 300 girls and a pledge class of around 80-100 you're bound to find besties in any chapter. You need to think long and hard tonight about whether you would rather not be Greek at all than join Alpha Phi. Rushing again as a sophomore isn't easy and all the rumors about snap bids and cob aren't true and/or only apply to a handful of chapters with a handful of openings. They aren't realistic options. Look around when you line up at Alpha Phi tonight- the girls in line with you could be your pledge sisters tomorrow. Be open to falling in love (or even just "in like") with the chapter tonight. They have cut a ton of girls this week and see you as sisterhood material. Pref is often a "game changer" for PNM's and they leave feeling differently about houses than they have all week. Being in a sorority is what YOU make of it. As my mom always says "if you want to make a friend, be a friend". I hope you decide to sign your pref card tonight. You will get out of it what you put in, so get involved! No mandatory study hours- ask some pledge sisters to study with you! No mandatory Greek events, round up as many Alpha Phi's as you can and go together!