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OP here. I'm not shy or awkward at all. I feel extremely comfortable in a variety of settings and have been told I could converse with a rock. It's just that I'm not an airhead and I prefer to talk about substantive things. I can't seem to muster any false enthusiasm for the mundane, so if conversations about hair and makeup and boys and what's in People magazine are what's expected, I fear I will be a fish out of water. However, I do feel sincerely enthusiastic about the process, especially if the result is finding a group of women with which I genuinely have something in common. So that's the conundrum.