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If you only pref one sorority and don’t get a bid, then yeah I would COB that house. Maybe if you made it to sisterhood round with them. But baby, if you got cut the first round do not waste your time and guard your heart. If you wanna drop rush really evaluate the situation at hand. Are there any sororities you have remaining that you like or are open to? If yes stick it out and try your luck. My roommate last year had a rough recruitment, like she only had 4/15 ask her to return after the first round, but her favorite kept her, and she had one other she thought was nice. Come sisterhood she legit only had 1 house left, but it was her fave. It really threw her off because she didn’t get why it played out that way. She was so happy to get to pref round. And at that point she knew she’d get a bid because her pi chi told her you would if she selected her max at pref, which was 1. The night before bid day I joking had her practice the hand sign for pics, and the next day she ran home to what she wanted the most. To this day she’ll say yes I got my top sorority, but rush was a really tough week. Many of the active girlies you see rushing you really grinded throughout the week. We gotta stop romanticizing a perfect rush experience because that’s just not a reality for most girls despite things working in the end. That’s why I tell girls who I know are going through recruitment this year to at least talk with someone knowledgeable about the process like a pi chi or active from another school to vent and talk through their emotions if they have thoughts of dropping so they can make a rational decision, and not an emotional impulsive one.