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Poster Name:
Truth

Poster Message:
It’s more common than you’d think. Tbh unless you truly have an open mind toward joining a house that isn’t your first choice, personally I would not pref them. I think each sorority deserves to have girls run home to them who will be happy to be there and embrace the experience. Taking pictures in letters I know I’d drop, when someone else who got dropped during the week who’d fit in better doesn’t seem right to me. I suicided and I don’t regret a thing. I was lucky that my sorority mutually wanted me enough where I got matched for a bid. However I mentally prepared myself for heartbreak and to not be a part of bid day if it didn’t work in my favor. I talked to my pi chi and she agreed to help me get involved in the cob process should things go wrong, and I personally felt like I would also be willing to do rush again as a sophomore if need be. My older cousin did recruitment at Mizzou in 2019 and when she told me her rush story, she preferenced 2 house and one which she love and another she tried dropping all week. And she got her bid from the house she didn’t want to be in and when she opened her bid card she bolted out of the field instead of running to the girls of the sorority she got a bid from and immediately went to her dorm to pack up and drive home for the day to be away bid day and Greek life.