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Go with your gut

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Part of being in a sorority is finding where you feel at home. That may look different than what your mom wants. Being in a so called "top" house doesn't mean anything if it isn't the right fit for you. It truly is more important to find where you belong, not where your mom thinks you should go. Are you paying for the sorority you join or is your mom? If she is paying, that doesn't give her a right to pick, but it doesn't sound like she would be willing to pay if you end up in a different house. Maybe during rush have a heart to heart with her and tell her where you feel you fit best and explain that to her. Also top houses cut a lot of girls. It may not be up to you to go to one of those houses. Hopefully your mom will be able to understand and accept where you want to go or end up and have a change of heart. Good luck