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Enough

Poster Message:
Every house has to go through Panhell to cob to prevent such things. I'm sorry cob didn't work out for you, we all would encourage you to go through formal recruitment this fall. Rushing as a sophomore is difficult, but not impossible. Do your best to make friends in the houses you are interested in, make good grades, and get involved on campus. Remember- many houses were only taking a couple girls and therefore were not able to open up a major even to discuss hundreds of women for just a couple spots. And if you think the process is unfair, think about what the so sororities have to do to prepare for a cob event during classes. These ladies are bending over backwards to find new members for their house, setting up socials, making sure their members can attend the socials, and then discussing with their house about pnms to invite into their chapter. Can you imagine doing all of that with hundreds of girls when you only need 2 or 3? That seems absurd when a house can just offer names of girls they personally know would be good fits to their sisterhood. Please stop making this all about you without thinking about what it would be like to be in the other persons shoes. It's just not worth it to out that much time and effort into an event when you can pledge a few girls without the hassle. That's why there's formal recruitment where everyone is on an equal playing field. And houses that do publicly cob do so so they can hold large cob events bc they need more girls----