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Poster Name:
GlassHalfFull

Poster Message:
Cami, did you really say "Think about what WE can do to change the system?" REALLY? Earth to Cami, you are not in college. You are not part of the system. The system works amazingly well and, by far, the majority of girls are happy with where they wind up. And here you are, with a daughter who has been part of Greek life for a day, suggesting that the system be changed. It's not for everyone and it may be the first of many times your child will be disappointed on the way to adulthood. But if you sent her away to school, for God's sake let her live her life and figure out who she is without you -- because my guess is that you have been micromanaging her life far too long. I think that when you said in your original post that you were afraid not getting into a good house would ruin her freshman year, what you meant is that it would ruin YOUR freshman year. Step back, take a deep breath and stop living through your daughter. Time for BOTH of your to grow up and act your age.