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Poster Name:
Cami

Poster Message:
Things turned out well. She had two choices in the end; she liked them both. She got her bid today and seems very happy with the outcome. I know she ended up in a good place and she'll make us all proud. Thank you to everyone who contributed to this discussion. I wrote my original post to try and understand the process and how it works. I understand the process better now but I still don't like it. I feel it undermines too many girls, takes away their self confidence and makes them think they're just not good enough. I feel for those girls who didn't get any invites back and were eliminated early on through no choice of their own. I don't think that's what the Greek system was designed to do. It's suppose to promote all women; build on their strengths and abilities and encourage them to be the best they can be. This system starts with tearing them down.That being said, I know that they can't take everybody; somebody has to be cut and therefore gets hurt in the process. I don't know what the answer is, but I know there has to be a better way of recruiting members. Maybe we should work on changing the system somehow. Thanks everyone for your concern and for listening. I had no idea, that one simple post would spark so much interest.