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Thanks @Jane for attempting to clarify your confounding original post. But if you are saying women going through rush shouldn't aim high and have a little pride, well, I disagree with you. There are some people who settle, and some who don't. Going in to rush had my eye on 6 specific houses, all of which have strict grade cuts and are known for being selective. I was dropped by two of them, but on the last two days I wound up with quality houses where I felt extremely comfortable. On my last day I had two of the original six to choose from and couldn't be happier with the results. By the time you go off to college you should know a little bit about yourself and what's acceptable. I think recruitment was just the first of many decisions I will make a long the way that will ultimately help me become the best version of myself. It's a process, but it's not an RFM problem when women make a decision about what's acceptable to them and what isn't. It's extremely personal, and I always knew that not being part of sorority life was an option I could live with.