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Attempting wisdom

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Opinions from a senior who has recently graduated and gone alum status. No matter what people are always going to try and tier sororitities, but what i’ve figured out after 4 years is tiers and reputations don’t really matter. What matters at the end of the day for me at least was making long-lasting friendships, unbelievable experiences and the opportunity to grow with the love and support of my chapter. That’s what i’m taking with me as I leave this wonderful school. Not how popular, pretty, smart, successful, fun or quirky others thought of my sorority could be. I would encourage you to follow where you feel comfortable and choose a chapter you’ll have the feeling not wanting to leave behind in 4 years because what they gave you is so special. I genuinely believe all 15 chapters here can give you that. You’re young now and probably will do what you want. However recruitment is something else... and you’d be surprised of who you can truly connect with and what your hopes and values will lead you to. Before college I had known a lot of girls the grade ahead of me so I had an idea of reputations and tiers and thought I knew where I wanted to be, but going through recruitment my heart was stolen by a chapter who I figured out as the week progressed, especially on preference day, where I truly belonged. I wish you the best and that you find your true home as you start your journey at this school in August. PS crying because your time in your chapter is over and leaving your sisters is real. Definitely was (still) crying in the club.