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Poster Name:
Shady

Poster Message:
Hi OP, Getting back to your original thoughts... Let's get this out in the open from the start: Yes, I am a sorority woman. Yes, I got my first choice. I'm happy with my sisters and have zero regrets about going Greek or what sisterhood I joined. There. Now hopeful no one can call me out for being salty for one reason or another. I can't blame you for dropping out of formal recruitment because the several houses you liked cut you. Joining a sorority is a huge financial, social, and emotional commitment. If your gut feeling was that the houses you had left were not worth it, I'm glad you went with your gut. No one should be guilted into making a commitment that will affect so many aspects of your college life and beyond. People take this "trust the system" bs a bit far. Now, I suggest you do some soul-searching, because it's only you who can answer this question: "Is it more important for me to be in ABC sorority, or to be a member of Greek life?" When you can answer this question, you'll know whether going through informal is right or not. You're also going to have some time to adjust to college life and to see what the Greeks are like outside of recruitment. I wish you the best of luck that this works out.