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Poster Name:
Wondering

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />informal & houses<br /><br /> Poster Message:
Went through most of recruitment and had houses I really liked all week, In the end I was left with 2 houses which had really nice people but not girls I really connected with and could imagine spending countless hours with for the next few years. I honesly mean nothing bad to those houses because they were girls I liked but just didn't click with so I ended up dropping at the very end(pi chi sensing that with me also). So now I am debating going through informal and not sure how it works and worried about what girls who have ended up in houses say. Which houses are known as 'cliquey'? ive heard from many that not just going through recruitment but once they were there on bid day they felt like so many girls knew each other from high school. I know people used to say that was tridelt and that's why they had their setback, but what are the other houses now?I tend to be a little on the shy side so I think going in to a house where so many now each other from high school would be really bad for me. Also, do the girls that do informal all get asked back at the same time? Do they do initiation with the other girls that received bids on bid day or do they do it later? And does getting a later bid put you at the end of the list for living in house as a sophomore? Thank you for any information and please don't tell me how awful it was that I dropped, I really gave it all I had but just didn't feel the connection on the last day. No one is more disappointed with the outcome than me