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Me, too

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />legacy question<br /><br /> Poster Message:
I am a legacy to what most people think is a terrific house (Kappa). My mother was a Kappa, as was her mother -- though neither were on this campus. I know all about how there is no guarantee that just because I am a legacy that they will be interested. But how does it work in reverse? What if I don't like the house? I have been told that if I absolutely can't see myself in that house that I shouldn't go back on pref day (if I am invited, obviously) because then I would have to be towards the top of their bid list and it sends a message that I really want that house. But if I don't, is it better to go back on pref day and just list them second, or to not go back? Or should I suicide the other house? HELP!!!!!!!!!! I know it all depends on how things work out and how I feel while going through rush, but I want to go into this understanding how it works and not get caught up in the emotions.