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that is the question

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Did they opt out of invites that weren't from the sorority "of their dreams". My dd went through last year with a stellar GPA (4.2) and lots of hs activities, and she is very attractive, BUT she is VERY shy and didn't get lots of recs. She was a legacy and thought she could get by on that and grades. Well, her shyness and lack of recs really got her during rush and she ended up getting dropped by her favs (including my former chapter). In the end she decided to go with a house that wasn't on her "ideal" choices list and has been happy as can be with her decision. You have to realize that with so many girls going through that it takes the WHOLE package...recs, connections,personality, appearance,and grades to be at the tops of the lists for invites back.