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Poster Name:
@pnms

Poster Message:
The most important thing is to keep an open mind. You can't help it if you're released from a top house just because they already have their friends picked out to be new members. The reason that the bottom half of the houses might take you without close friends pulling for you is because they are losing all the top tier girls to the tip top tier houses.. Some think that the diversity of girls is a real plus of the new row/ lower ranked houses. The old row/ higher ranks are full of girls from the same hometowns whose families have known each other for mutiple generations. In my class, there were very few girls who didn't fit into the OLD SOUTH network. Being from a hometown that is technically in the South, but more like the north (near Washington DC), I've had to deal with a fair amount of loneliness because the girls in my class didn't really want to invest in new friendships. And to be fair, they all had each other. I just felt somewhat lonely. My best friend was a year older than me because she was the only one nice to me. I stuck with it and it didn't improve much. Still I made it to senior year without withdrawing because my mom's sorority friends were her best friends throughout the years and I wanted those relationships too. Unfortunately I guess I won't get them because of the very insular nature of the girls that join the old row/ highly ranked houses. Not bitter, just uninformed before I started recruitment.