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I hope this helps

Poster Message:
First of all, there are hundreds of girls with 4.0 GPA, extracurriculars, volunteer work, and are beautiful going through recruitment. None of that stands out, it's just the standard basic peer group. Second, over half the girls in recruitment come from out of state and the same for the girls in the sororities. Being out of state doesn't stand out either. So the two things you mention are not significant enough to either get a bid or prevent getting a bid. Conversations, social skills, confidence, making the most of your looks, and your social media have to be tiptop in addition to the grades and resume. I know you love your smart, talented, beautiful daughter and your heart is aching for her, but instead of casting blame and making her a victim, you can help her to figure out exactly what might have gone better and make this another of those teachable moments after emotions calm down. Self-awareness is a vital life skill. If she figures this out she can get a bid through COB or go through again next fall and write her own ticket, it happens all the time. This is an opportunity, no lie.