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Poster Name:
gabs

Poster Message:
This is a rough one on a whole because it is a big decision right now in your life. No matter what choice you make you will be fine and you just have to believe that. If you are happy in your daily life with college, then you will be fine whether you remain in your sorority or drop. I think you just need to make sure you won't have any regrets because once you make this decision you can't go back. Have you looked into your sorority to see if there is such a thing as "inactive status" or "special status" for a semester? Maybe you could try that and see how you feel. That will allow you to remain a member at a distance, but not fully drop. Sororities have different rules for this and some may not allow it at all, but maybe you could look into this. Being a member in a huge sorority is tough for many. There is a big difference when you talk to friends that are in sororities from other colleges/unis that are half the size or less. Imo, the sororities at Bama need to do a better job when it comes to pledge classes bonding and then also new members bonding with older girls. It is just not happening and I hear that from friends in all different sororities.