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As an outsider on this thread from a large southern school with a strong Greek system, but much smaller sororities, I feel sorry for y'all at Bama, I do. I'm not here to say my school is better and put you down, just that it really does seem that your memberships are too large to be real sisterhoods, and that's what's causing these negative experiences. I HATE that for you! My sorority has been the greatest thing for me, life-changing in fact. But 400-500 members is just a huge machine, and any group of that size would of course end up being overshadowed by rules and fines and mandatory everything, just to keep things running and not get out of hand. I mean your sororities are bigger than a lot of high schools. How can you get close to a group of people and really know them in a mass of people like that? How can you even begin to do that in a new member class of 120+ girls? IMO that nobody asked for, half that number is about just right. But I don't know what to tell you to do about it. Restricting rush by GPA to keep numbers lower doesn't seem fair at all. I hope there are many, many more girls having great experiences that just aren't the ones posting on here...