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What you are feeling is normal and I bet you are not the only new member feeling that way. It’s sort of like the build up to Christmas, or a big trip. You’re excited and think about how it will be and build it up so much that the actuality of the situation could never live up to the hype you gave it. Reach out to your new member educator-it’s part of her job to look after all the new members. What you can do is find some new members in your dorm and walk to the house with them. Ask them to get a coffee with you. Go to the house as much as possible, especially for lunch and dinner. Be bold and introduce yourself to a group that just sat down to eat and ask if you could sit with them. Ask them questions so that you get to know them. Put yourself out there and soon you will feel more at home.