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Poster Name:
Little birdy

Poster Message:
I was an in state PNM with legacy statuses to two top houses on campus (let’s call them 1 and 2). I told a friend I was 85% sorority 1 and 15% sorority 2 after sisterhood and that unless sorority 2 really blew me away on pref, I was choosing sorority 1. When I got my card back, sorority 2 had dropped me. I was crushed. That was my legacy house!! Someone in my family I share a very close bond with was a member of that house. Even though I was leaning towards sorority 1, the fact that I wasn’t able to make the decision for myself really upset me. I felt like the choice had been ripped from me and decided for me - if I had wanted to go that house and share that with my family member - I didn’t even have the choice anymore. All this to say, I think some girls get upset because they feel like their decisions were made for them and they’re ripped of that right to make the choice - which sucks but is the reality. I love the house I ended up in. But apart of me will always wonder what if because I wasn’t able to make the decision for myself.