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so many girls don’t even know who they are when they are 18. I know when I pledged my house it was bc it’s what I thought I wanted to be in college and the type of people I thought I wanted to surround myself with. By junior year I definitely realized that I would have fit in better with a couple other houses but I also met some of my best friends in my own house. You don’t have to fit the mold of your house and a lot of times it’s great because you bring something different to the chapter. Even though people get really surprised when I tell them I’m in XYZ house, I have learned a lot and have learned to appreciate/interact with people I’m fundamentally different from! ☺️ That being said, I would say to avoid pledging something you know you’re not, even if it seems like the “cool” thing to do. It’s your college experience and at the end of the day your happiness, not what anyone else from your hometown thinks of you.