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Poster Name:
greekgirl

Poster Message:
You will be ok. Give it more time.I was in your position not too long ago. Chances are there are other girls in your house feeling the same way- you need to find each other. It is hard if it's not your first choice. But I know in our house the alumnae would toss girls out right and left just to pare it down- don't take it personally. The girls who wanted you probably really did and were upset with what happened too. Alumnae at Alabama are notorious for sifting though resumes and tossing anyone not from their own hometown. It isn't like this at all schools and it needs to change. But in the meantime there are other girls in your house, I guarantee you who are in the same situation as you are. Give it a good few months before you throw in the towel. It is hard. Adjusting to college is hard even without all of this thrown on you. Give yourself a little break and be kind to yourself. It's ok to go through all these feelings. These are normal feelings- you aren't a bad person for feeling them at all and you aren't the only one that's for sure. You will be ok and I'm sure you will find girls you like in your house and may even rise up to leadership positions not available in the other houses. Then next year, recruit new friends! You have this, you can do this! Good luck! Your house wanted YOU. Every house dropped people- but this house saw something in you, something special!