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Let your friends and relatives know now that you are going through recruitment with a completely open mind. While it's possible that you might pledge one of the four, it's equally or even more likely that you won't. It won't be so bad if they have time to get used to it and if they think you're looking out for yourself. It's far worse to feel like you let them down because you were cut by their favorites and you had to settle or drop out of recruitment. No matter what they say (you'll regret it, you won't be in the best alum group, Granny will be hurt, etc.) keep saying that you're keeping an open mind. Then you don't need to worry about being cut by the four. You just pick a house you like and say see, I told you I was going to do this. I love my new house. I promise, being greek in any house is better than dropping out in shame because you got cut by the four you wanted.