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Poster Name:
surprised

Poster Message:
I'm surprised that this topic keeps coming up and not one thinks to tell the PNMs that if they decline a bid, they are most likely declining to ever be greek. Your best chance is as a freshman. If you're not successful as a freshman, when you go through as a sophomore you are much LESS likely to get any bid, much less a bid from a house that you think deserves you. It does happen occasionally, but mostly the soph spaces are taken by girls who have best friends in the house or are legacies transferring, etc. Your best bet is to realize that the house you got a bid from is THE ONLY ONE THAT WANTED YOU. You should be happy you got a bid, go to the brunch and act happy until you are happy. Otherwise you'll end up bitter and independent.