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Poster Name:
tbh

Poster Message:
all the hype is in freshman and sophomore year, freshman year especially. you're coming to THE university of alabama, that's known for having a huge and wild greek life... freshman girls get swaps almost every week for the first semester. meaning, freshman girls are surrounded by on campus frat boys, they're encouraged to talk to them from the older actives in the sorority, and these girls want attention. every girl wants to find some special guy that's in a cool frat so she can brag about it to her friends. and sophomore year is sort of like this but without the swaps. by sophomore year, you have your set friend group and to meet boys you begin going out to bars as opposed to going to swaps. by junior and senior year this hype has died down immensely. by this time, in all honesty i'd say the biggest thing on girls' minds is getting good grades. but i think fraternity status does begin playing less and less of a roll. of course, there will always be girls who are snobby but there are a lot of girls who are open minded. for a lot of girls, especially OOS ones, they're open minded to different types of guys. also by junior and senior year, girls start to drift a part from their houses, not necessarily in a bad way though. girls start to realize that greek life isn't the end all be all and as you move up in the house your responsibilities lessen, unless you hold a position. but i wouldn't agree with what the person above said. i think the majority of people are always looking for relationships. my grand big started dating this guy in the middle of her senior year and they're still together and actually planning on moving in together soon. i guess the best piece of advice i could give you is that things aren't so rigid here. are you going to meet snobby people? yeah. but you're also going to meet a lot of really sincere people. take it for what it is and try to make the best of the situation.