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GoGreek

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It's not too late!! Most girls - if they're honest - feel a little left out and unsure during the first few weeks (even some of the ones who appear to be in "established" cliques already). Everyone is grasping to find their place in their new sorority, I promise! Whatever you do- don't go into "withdrawal" mode. You've got to put yourself out there and work at it to make friends. Some ideas: 1. Reach out to the other NM's who live in your dorm and just start making plans- whether it's walking over to your NM meetings together or a lunch date, just do it. 2. Never, ever decline an invitation from someone in your chapter (unless it's illegal,..). Say "yes" to everything! 3. Wear your letters with pride and look for other girls in your classes who wear them. Sit with them, make plans to study together, etc. 4. If you are OOS, make plans with other OOS NM's. Sometimes it's easier to bond with someone who is also from Texas or the northeast or wherever. 5. If all else fails, just gather your courage and start sitting with what appears to be an "established" clique. Introduce yourself and just jump in to the convo whenever it's natural.