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First and foremost, you should never hold yourself just for a guy. Obviously, I can't judge your relationship because i don't know either of you however it seems that he's just trying to be protective yet in doing such he's holding you back. Of course, you should go to swaps, date parties, and formals. Lots of your future sisters will be drunkenly grinding on frat guys but there are lots of other girls who just like to go out and dance/listen to music with each other. Date parties may be a little more difficult... Obviously you're supposed to bring a date, but it doesnt necessarily need to be a guy and tbh you don't even need to bring a date. You can go solo with some sisters or bring a friend thats not in your house. And same goes for formals. Please rush and please don't let your boyfriend hold you back from all these amazing upcoming opportunities. I know you don't want to worry him by going out but if you're honest with him then he shouldn't have a problem. I came into my freshman year and I had a boyfriend back home over 1000 miles away and a lot of nights that my house had swaps and date parties I would stay in and talk to him on the phone instead... Obviously because I wanted to but I 100% did miss out on a lot with my house in terms of social events and bonding. And low and behold we actually ended up breaking up. Good luck!