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But that's what recruitment is about - not picking the house that is "nice" but picking the house where you fit in the best. It doesn't matter how bubbly or sweet the girls are if you can't picture yourself as their friend and equal. Just like how a girl with "intimidating" looks may feel out of her league when speaking to girls at another house who are entirely focused on academics or majoring in engineering or don't understand her jokes about Sephora. None of the people involved are at fault, it's nobody's issue. They just don't connect and so the experience is negative for the PNMs because "positive" means feeling at home.