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And you’re right, we should be giving advice. Not bashing PNMs. The honest truth is in a lot of houses there are girls who were disappointed that they got cut from another. But then they went in and tried anyway and realized that they are in a great fit for them. Once you’re on the other side, you’ll see it’s a completely different side. One where you realize it was never rejection but a system in which people have to be shuffled around with limited interactions. Sometimes we expect to see someone the next day and find out they were cut from our own house and we have no idea how it happened. The great thing about rush - and what I think so many girls are fighting on here for you to see- is that there are great houses that get overlooked where you could be incredibly happy and make your lifetime friends. I honestly believed I was going to another house. I was stunned to silence when I got my bid. I cried. I felt rejected. And then I said- you know what, other gurls are crying that they didn’t get one into the one I just got. I’m going to go see what this has to offer me. I let my pledge class. I told myself if I hated it, I’d drop out. I’ve never had a better night in my life than my bid night. I stayed a little longer. I got a big, I was part of a lfamily. I started having a booked social calendar - the kind I wished I had large semester before. I began making friends- who now I can’t imagine my life without. They will be in my wedding one day. I don’t even think about the other house or how I could have been there. I just realize I’m so glad they sent me where I am. Some stories end up like mine and some don’t. But you have to TRY and see for yourself. The worst thing that’s going to happen is you end up in a house that really wants you! The rest is up to you.