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I wonder

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I wonder if the moms of disappointed girls would be this vocal if their daughters had gotten what they wanted. I'm sure when all of these alums went through rush and got bids, there were probably sad girls back then too. Unfortunately, no one really cares unless it's about them or their child. My daughter had a great experience last year, and yet she called and said "There has to be a better way." One of the girls from her school didn't get invited back to anything. I hope that all these alums will try to change the system, but the very nature rush lends itself to hurt feelings and disappoinment for many. Who wants to be told they are not wanted? No one I know.