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Poster Name:
it is hard

Poster Message:
Take it all with a grain of salt. A) Those particular members probably do want you back, but it's not their decision alone, it is a chapter decision and those members's opinions only hold so much weight. B) The chapter may genuinely like you but if you are not above their mandated cut-off line then there's nothing to be done because it's all about numbers. Nothing personal, AT ALL. C) It is the sororities' job to make every pnm feel welcome and wanted. That's good rushing. I know the waiting is ridiculously hard, even cruel, the way this school makes pnm's wait so long with the break in between. It is out of your hands so try to let go and find some peace so you can focus on classes. Prayers help.