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okay....

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so you're saying that chapters have overlooked quality pnms because of connections/dirty rushing? dirty rushing is a serious accusation and I wouldn't throw it around lightly. it sucks that we can't invite back every girl we love because of RFM but that doesn't mean we're deliberately discriminating against girls who aren't from our hometowns. there are a number of factors that go into choosing who to invite back, and it's ill-advised to tell PNMs "oh you were dropped because XYZ is dirty rushing." to any PNM reading this, if you were dropped by a chapter you love, just know that there is a girl in that house broken up about it too, because they liked you enough to keep inviting you back. no one can tell you for certain why you didn't get invited back, but you can know that the houses you'll pref see you as someone they want as a sister and that's such a wonderful thing. go into tomorrow with an open mind and an open heart!