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Gingerbread

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@Question: I’m in a sorority and I joined in my first year. For a long time I didn’t feel like I fit in etc but after a while when I talked to the girls and actually put some effort into the friendships I ended up really liking it. I would say give it some time and put in some effort and if it doesn’t work out just drop. I know it’s hard but also remember that your whole college experience doesn’t depend on the frat you’re in etc it depends on how you spend your time and who you spend it with so really try to put in some effort and give it some time. Also other frats may seem great on the outside but they most likely have the same issues that you mentioned. Best of luck <3