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@ OP, In your orignal post you mention... "should I drop like my friends" In your follow up post you mention... "I have other friends in other sororities and I am jealous of them" Can you focus on making deeper connections with your sisters instead of listening and following your friends? It sounds like you are heavily influenced by what others think and do. Not a terrible thing but maybe it's time to give yourself a chance to find your own way. If you drop you will never have this sisterhood opportunity again. Volunteer to head a committee that interacts with a lot of sisters you don't know well. Then volunteer to be a contributing member of a different committee and be the best contributor by actively helping your sisters. Don't wait for them to come to you. Contact them first to help out. The best way to make real friends in your sisterhood is to contribute. Are you waiting for others to come to you? I know it can be hard, but it's so much easier if you volunteer to help others.